The Womanizer Was So Good I Passed Out the First Time I Tried It

It might be a touch louder than other vibrators I tested, but not so loud that you’ll wake someone in the next room while you’re using it. “It’s super important to read the instructions of your particular toy to know how to keep it clean and in working order,” Lincoln says. She also explains that you should be using cleaners that are specifically formulated for intimate devices. “Toys are meant to bring fun into your experience. Make sure you’re in a comfortable space mentally and physically,” Chang says.

You can use a palm vibrator to stimulate the clitoris or vulva, wrap it around the shaft of a penis, hold it against the nipples, cup the testicles with it, or do pretty much anything else that comes to mind. As long as the vibrator stays on the outside of your body (not inside the vagina or anus), you’re golden. We-Vibe’s flagship product is meant to be “worn” during intercourse to provide some extra stimulation for both partners, though it can level up masturbation or non-penetrative types of sex, too. This latest version is different from previous iterations in that its internal portion is shaped like an “O,” which helps the toy stay in place better during sex.

So while you may not be tossing it in your purse or boldly striding past airport security with it in your cosmetics bag, you can rest assured that it’ll keep your profile low while in use. The Lelo Dot also features a ring and low, quiet vibrations, but has a shape unlike the shapes of other vibrators. The tapered body of the vibrator allows users to explore and then maximize the specific pleasure points of their erogenous zones both externally (don’t forget about sexy, sensitive areas such as the nipples!) and internally. It stays true to its promise of a vacillating between a “teasing murmur” and a “satisfying pulse,” never straying into a loud, distracting buzz. This “beautiful looking product” provides double the pleasure with a suction head to mimic oral sex and an insertable love egg to target the G-spot. Testers loved the feel of the soft silicone against their skin and said it was a cinch to use thanks to easy-to-follow instructions.

It stays put, nestling itself on you effortlessly the entire time you’re vibing. These handy little devices offer a whole world of possibilities when it comes to solo and partner play, and users seem to be totally smitten. Of course, there are a few things to consider before using a Bluetooth sex toy in a long-distance relationship. Plus, the waterproof design means you can take your Nova 2 into the bath or shower for even more wet and wild fun.

The Point Plus allows you to experiment with different textures and vibrations, thanks to the included sleeves. Place them over the smooth silicone bullet (which boasts 20 powerful modes) and enjoy the new sensations on your clit. SELF’s former commerce editor adores this vibe from sexual wellness company Maude, which blends an egg, finger, and wand vibrator in one.

It also has a low battery indicator, so there are no mid-sex surprises. Wand vibrators are typically on the larger side vibrators, but there are still plenty of different shapes to choose from. “Vaginas , vulvas, and other erogenous areas come in different shapes and sizes, and finding the perfect length and width is key,” says Dr. Hack. The price range for vibrators is surprisingly vast, with the most affordable options in the $20 area and the most luxurious upwards of $300.